ereriere:

frogparty:

eating bread dipped in soup unlocks new emotions

that 16th century peasant feeling

owlmylove:

good afternoon ladies and entities. regrettably, i am feeling

gaysie:

being a woman is just a constant cycle of [maybe if i was prettier] [maybe if i was prettier] [naybe ir i was—]

lookingbackatfashionhistory:

• The ‘Lily’ Evening Gown.

Worn by: Comtesse Greffhulhe

Designer: Charles Frederick Worth

Date: ca. 1896

Medium: Black silk velvet, white silk satin (for the partially modern collar), white satin appliqués embroidered with metal cannetilles and gold sequins.

knuckle:

@white allies: because i see constant self-deprecation based on your whitness, here’s a detailed explanation of why it’s not helping us (or you).

if you continously go on about how horrible white people are, you may rot your own brain into thinking that these shortcomings are a natural state of being rather than a manufactured supremacist system which is simultaneously widespread, evil, and capable of being dismantled. 

recognizing that you have the same human compassion capabilities as everyone else, regardless of how alienated from them you have become, is the first step toward becoming a better person capabable of helping other people (of color).

don’t mirror the way that PoC talk about you as an oppressor class. the context is different, and the mindset that you develop from it is different.

don’t fall into a mindset where you (act as if you) are a morally compromised being for being white. the ultimate end of antiracism is to denaturalize racial hegemony, including virtuous moralization of the “oppressed”

evaluating your engagement in racism & the benefits you receive from white supremacy is only one piece of this process. the other piece is interacting with other people (of color) as if they are indeed the same species as you.

so instead of demoralizing yourself, look at your actions to determine if they are compassionate. academic stuff aside, this is often a good litmus test for racism; even the unintentional you will soon realize was often a failure to conceptualize how your actions would affect others- not a failure by some innate aspect of your race but by the normalized lack of consideration whiteness may afford you

seedling:

it is actually really sweet when someone stays up late to talk to you

dojacat:

A parent: say thank you

little baby: tank you :)

Me:

just vibing in cologne w my friend and honestly like. idk who i was a month ago but i prefer who i am now she’s stopped making excuses and she’s stopped saying yes to everything and she’s stopped being a doormat and she started fucking living and i’m proud of her

cemeterything:

puukkolesbo:

cemeterything:

me when i’m with other people: i am loved 😌

as soon as i’m alone: but am i 😰

no emotional object permanence